Assuming this wasn't a shotgun wedding you knew she was controlling when you married her.The problem is that she is very controlling about anything I'm doing in my life, so the way I see it, I either lie and take care of my own mental health, or I tell the truth and be subject to her insane demands.
For example, yesterday I went on a long run, told her I was gonig to smoke before, she asked me not to because I would be around our daughter 3 hours later. I said no, and that there's no way I'd still be high 3 hours and 9 miles later. She then tried to negotiate my exact doseage.
Then, 6 hours later after aqsking me probably 5 times if I'm still high, she says that my dizzines is probably from taking one hit of weed that day, and has nothing to do with running 9 miles or feeling pretty depress because of this shitty situation.
That's controlling, right? Or is it not? Fck, I really don't have anything to compare it to.
Sorry but you got yourself into this.