So Northern Ireland isn't a member state of the United Kingdom? It answers to Dublin and Brussels, not the 10 Downing return address on their substantial welfare checks?
You brought up lots of West and South Slav countries. Remind me. Did the Hapsburgs and Szegedsalamis just all of a sudden realize they had a fuckton of West and South Slavs and just decided oh hell, we better let them form their own breakaway Republics because FecalFace said independence is peaceful?
Or was a generation marched into the machine gun's field of fire?
Vaclav Havel is an exception, not the rule.