We know from the entire history of mankind that people will always tend to behave like...people. With that in mind, how can anyone honestly believe that advocating whitey to actively think and interact with others primarily in terms of racial identity will lead to less racial conflict? That whitey will somehow act differently under those circumstances than every other such group identity?
There is no indication that any segment of any population has ever been either willing or capable of rising above it all and to actually be "better than that". What we're left with is how we think people actually will tend to act and react WRT those expectations.