I kind of like certain places in flyover country or inland California. Some of the places in California in the Sierra Nevada foothills are nice and significantly cheaper than the coast.
Hear me out. We all love to surf which is presumably why we pay so much to live where we do. But, the older I get the more I realize surfing is just a time wasting hobby like anything else. Raising kids and working a job to pay to live next to the water results in an average surf time of two to three times a week for one or two hours. Now, what if I just replaced surfing with mountain biking? Or trail running? Or anything else that is fun? You could buy a nice house with mountain bike trails running through your neighborhood for far less than the cost of a condo in San Diego.
Would I miss the ocean? Probably. But I don't think it would be that bad. I'd adjust pretty quickly like I did when I was in the military and got stationed somewhere without waves.
Valid points. Although if I were to live in the Sierras, I would lean towards the Nevada side of Tahoe as there are no state taxes. I got gambling pretty much out of my system in my 20s during many Kirkwood trips.
Of course you would adjust. You wouldn't sit around and mope. If it was just surfing, that would be one thing but just the smell of the ocean, the tidepools for the kids to play in, the ability to just chill and enjoy the serenity of the beach/ocean, man, I would miss that. As would my wife and kids. And that's the one thing about Southern California is that you have both an incredible variety of terrain and almost perpetually good weather to utilize that terrain. Literally, right now today, you could go surf in the morning and then go backcountry snowboarding an hour or two later, then go dirt bike riding in the desert later that afternoon/evening, if that's your thing. There are only a small handful of places in the world that you can do that. I've lived here my whole life, done a ton, and feel like I've barely even scratched the surface of what you can do here.
Something I think a lot of people forget is that you can always make more money but you can never get back time and memories and those are far more valuable. And I don't consider material objects to be of anything but ephemeral value either. Simply put, your return on investment on living by the ocean is more valuable that buying a new car every year because you can.