And then?Not sure if “this” goes “here” or not, but it prolly will sooner than later…..
my wife of 20 years just asked me for an “open marriage“.
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Divorce Thread better than book thread
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I was under the impression that women could also choose the men they wanted to date on the same app. This is much better when you don't have a full head of hair! Man, can't believe I missed out...
is this why she invited the erBB to come stay with you guys before you move?
When you go on dating app is it just to fuck?
I always had to make girls like me to fuck me.
If I fucked and ran it hurt their feelings.
That is not a thing anymore?
I always had to make girls like me to fuck me.
If I fucked and ran it hurt their feelings.
That is not a thing anymore?
Not sure if “this” goes “here” or not, but it prolly will sooner than later…..
my wife of 20 years just asked me for an “open marriage“.
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I wouldn't know man... not 58, not healthy, no full head of hair and no cultivating knowledge. Also no Spanish.And then, I am suddenly thinking about asking @brukuns how 58 yo healthy males, with full head of hair who know how to cultivate "the kind", fare our there in Brasil, and just how hard is portagee once you know Spanish already?
You want "open" marriage?
Me looking into some cheap tickets to Bangkok, for now.
@Truth while I am in the 'hood'... how's the "pickings" down there?
You would adapt easily though, but I wouldn't plant the ganja here, not worth going to jail for... and jail in Brazil is not the most pleasant of places.
Sorry about that man... unreal she actually asked this.
Maybe
But he wasn’t the only one thinking it
dating apps make me face reality when i see what a woman my age looks like - no way i am
that old
I have a good strategy on apps in bali - 90% success rate if i meet in person
you meet someone who is from Jakarta on a quick get away trip to Bali - they are usually married, cashed up and Muslim and they want sex and fun with a white (bule) to escape their domesticated life - meet them for a drink back to their hotel in an hour or two
become their holiday fling - i win - they win
actually had one refer her friend to me
so easy
that old
I have a good strategy on apps in bali - 90% success rate if i meet in person
you meet someone who is from Jakarta on a quick get away trip to Bali - they are usually married, cashed up and Muslim and they want sex and fun with a white (bule) to escape their domesticated life - meet them for a drink back to their hotel in an hour or two
become their holiday fling - i win - they win
actually had one refer her friend to me
so easy
Truth Bigelow lol
Atheists, Catholics and Lutherans all have about the same divorce rate (20% give or take). Evangelicals have the highest rate (34%) and surprisingly Mormons have a rate slightly above Catholics/lutherans/atheists.
I don’t know what any of this means, but the idea that “marriage is a religious construct“ would seem to need more analysis.
Also, marriage is a social construct not a religious one.
Love has only been part of the marriage contract since the 1800s. Before that it was back room deals and convenience, with women having no say.
It may be off putting to watch people choose mates from a list, but it’s not particularly a new idea.
I think this is the same conversation as, "I'd like to get breast implants" constructed a different way.Not sure if “this” goes “here” or not, but it prolly will sooner than later…..
my wife of 20 years just asked me for an “open marriage“.
She's on her way out.
Yeah, that’s game over. She probably has a dude already in hand - that’s not a request you make without impetus.And then, I am suddenly thinking about asking @brukuns how 58 yo healthy males, with full head of hair who know how to cultivate "the kind", fare our there in Brasil, and just how hard is portagee once you know Spanish already?
You want "open" marriage?
Me looking into some cheap tickets to Bangkok, for now.
@Truth while I am in the 'hood'... how's the "pickings" down there?
Run, don’t walk.
hit me over the head w a vodka bottle - weird sound when that bottle hits the skull
she is sober now and we are friends - always did her part $$ to help me raise daughter -
has a great soul, just cursed with bad dna and a way too high IQ
Right, but I'm saying people (often women) are in direct control of their own list, which might read something like:
Must be at least 6'1.
Must not have voted for Trump (Biden)
Must make at least 300K/yr
Must drive a nice car
Must have/not have tattoos.
Must be/not be (insert race here)
Must not be fat.
Must not be skinny.
Must have/not have facial hair.
Can't be a sports fan
Can't be a surfer
Must love the gym
Must own a dog.
Must love my politics.
Must go to the barber once a week.
Sorry, love doesn't work that way. And they're basically ensuring they will stay forever single and bitching about it.
The delusional part is most do not realize this.
True. I had a definite type as a younger man and my wife fits almost none of my prior likes. The only constant was education level.