More bad news from Bali. This was in the OC Register today. Very sad.<P>O.C. man missing in blast <P>By DANIELLE HERUBIN <BR>The Orange County Register <BR> <BR>Three Huntington Beach friends who love to surf and golf were among the tourists who ignored government warnings about terrorists and headed to the exotic island of Bali.<P>They were seeking big waves and peace from the frenetic lifestyle in Southern California. They were celebrating Steve "Webby" Webster's 41st birthday. They thought they found Paradise.<P>One of them, John Parodi Jr., e-mailed his mother: "Everything is great. This place is wonderful."<P>Then their dream vacation turned into a tragedy. <P>A car bomb tore through two popular nightclubs in Bali on Saturday night, killing nearly 200 people and injuring hundreds more. Webster and Steve Cabler were sitting in the bar that suffered the worst damage.<P>A day after his effusive e-mail, a traumatized Parodi wandered with Cabler, who had a separated shoulder and burns on his hands. They searched for Webster, first at hospitals, then at the morgue.<P>But with the scores of casualties and many of the bodies badly burned or crushed, they were unable to find him, Parodi said Sunday from his Bali hotel.<P>Parodi, 41, had narrowly escaped being in the bar. He and his friends had just finished a Mexican dinner. He was full and had downed a few beers. He didn't feel like walking all the way to the Sari Club.<P>So he went back to the hotel and sat down at the pool with a beer. A short time later, he heard the blast.<P>Cabler later told Parodi of his harrowing ordeal:<P>Fire tore through the flimsy nightclub - horizontally - in the world's most popular surfing spot. Cabler told Parodi he saw two Australian girls next to him, their heads on fire. The last Cabler saw of Webster, he was under the collapsing roof.<P>Cabler climbed over the corrugated steel roof; then, using strength from years of surfing, pushed through a metal wall. <P>In the chaos that followed, Webster didn't surface. <P>Parodi had befriended an Australian guy, 6-foot, 6-inches tall, about 300 pounds. He walked up to the Australian after the blast, and the big man was crying. <P>"Hey, how are you doing?" Parodi asked him.<P>He had lost his 15-year-old daughter, Parodi learned.<P>Young surfers were among those killed. Whole families died.<P>Parodi and Cabler looked for Webster everywhere. Two Balinese boys the surfers had befriended earlier drove them around all day, searching. <P>They went to two discos that were destroyed and about 12 other buildings that were burned, the roofs torn off and litter from the blast strewn in the streets. <P>Parodi has also been searching for answers.<P>Was it al-Qaida? Would he be stuck in Bali? Was he still in danger? Tourists were jamming the airports trying to get off the island, according to news reports.<P>He wept as he talked about the things that matter most to him now. He recently left his job with Valley Crest, a playground developer, and had been thinking about retirement. He thought maybe he would stay in Bali. <P>Now all he wanted was to see Emerson, his golden retriever. To hug J.C., the friend house-sitting for him. <P>"Please tell my Dad I love him," Parodi said. "Please tell my Mom I love her."<P>Just before Parodi left for the exotic Indonesian island, John Parodi Sr., had told his son, "I don't think you should go."<P>His dad thought the area was a hotbed for terrorists. <P>Bali is not a place where bombs go off, Parodi recalled saying. <P>Now the U.S. Embassy is considering pulling out of Indonesia. Cabler has left for home, a 24-hour voyage through air and airports. <P>Parodi has a flight out in a couple of days. He can't wait. But he's wondering about his life. Does God answer prayers? He's not sure now. <P>Cabler and Parodi gave Webster's surfboard to some Balinese boys. <P>Parodi tried talking to Webster's wife. He began crying again as he thought about her and Webster's two children, a boy and a teenage daughter. <P>In Orange County, Webster's friends were angry and upset. They called each other, the Indonesian consulate, and Parodi and Cabler. They went to each other's homes Sunday and tried to comfort each other. <P>"We want people to know an American is missing," Nick Yuschenkoff, a Laguna Niguel resident, said after reading the Sunday papers. Yuschenkoff said all three men had been at his wedding two weeks ago, just days before they left for Bali.<P>Other Americans still haven't been accounted for. Henry Morales, a travel agent with Wave Hunters Surf Travel in Oceanside, said he has about 10 Southern Californians, some from Orange County, in Bali now. He's only confirmed that about half are okay. <P>David Scard, an Australian travel agent with GlobalSurfGuides.com who is helping Morales and others find people, said there's no easy way to track people down after a disaster in a place like Bali.<P>"They have no infrastructure to deal with it," Scard said in an interview from Australia. "The best information we've been getting is from people over there, people we know. It's been just chaos."<P>