If I said I wanted to get a surgery it would make me 14 years old people would think I’m nuts yet if I wanna get a surgery to make me a female oh well that’s perfectly acceptable
I get weirded out by a man changing his game up and deciding to be a woman. It's like...it just doesn't work that way, scientifically. You are who you are. Just be yourself, wear your panties, and stop trying to claim womanhood.
But....shades of grey. Ex I shared in this thread never went through male puberty, she has a chip in her arm that blocks something or other and has since she was like eleven. I've dated many much more masculine females. She's always felt like a girl and decided that's who she is....and she's been attacked and hurt by males and females (physically, badly) who are sooo upset by the idea that a person born with a penis could dare try to use the label "girl". I think it's partially self hate from people who are uncomfortable with the idea that they can be attracted to someone then find out that their junk isn't what they expected. Whatever it is, it breaks my heart, what she's gone through just trying to be happy and loved.
it's contradictory, complicated, and at times uncomfortable to not have a firm belief on this subject. But do we actually need to have a belief or consistent opinion on this? guess I just want to say...be fvcking nice to people. We don't have to support men deciding to be women then beating actual women at "their" sports. Then again, we also don't have to act like it means fvck all who wins a freakin' swimming contest or longboard competition. Maybe we just treat people like people and laugh at the person for being involved in a surfing contest to begin with?
like what is the point of this thread? Does 000 give a shlt about the sanctity of the woman's longboard division? No. He wanted to say "look at this gross person trying to be happy, ew/wrong". Why do you need to worry about it, why can't you just go fvck yourself?
I took my friend's picture down because I can already see the negative attention towards her. That's jacked because she's really nice and beautiful and if you were mean to her in person I would break your fvckin' jaw.
weird, sad....the erBB should be better than this. Or maybe not, maybe I'm too emotionally wrapped up in the topic. It's not new to this thread to make fun of people, I'm getting upset because I'm defensive of people I like.