Driftcoast-<P>I can't tell you how happy I am for you that you ditched the b1tch.<P>That wasn't about surfing. It was about her being a loser and a user.<P>She wanted a surfer, but then her selfish desires to have money without working for it herself, and "pampering", whatever that means, overtook her. Sounds like a truly icky person, once you got beneath the surface.<P>It's interesting that, after women struggled for centuries for the right to have an identity, fulfillment that wasn't vicariously attained through a man, so many seem to want to enslave men in the same way. Humans suck, I guess.<P>All the best to you and your future!