The kid was pretty well balanced growing up. And he always had part time jobs and summer jobs etc. not a lazy entitled brat or anything. But he has his shy/quiet and moody side too, so who knows
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I hope your nephew figures it out and gets the help he needs. I can see how his parents are unsettled about how their high-achieving kid is now having (previously unknown to them) problems shortly after going away to school.The kid was pretty well balanced growing up. And he always had part time jobs and summer jobs etc. not a lazy entitled brat or anything. But he has his shy/quiet and moody side too, so who knows
This happened to my roommate in college too. Handsome dude, tall, smart, but he got lost in the sauce in college. There's something about moving out of your hometown, away from your family and friends and everything you know to a massive, atomize pressure cooker that's bad for mental health.sub, as I'm sure you're aware, your nephew's at the age where many mental illnesses make a showing. It's f'n scary. I feel for him, and the family. Smart move for him to head home and take a beat, regroup.
Something tells me you have to look like racer1 too.Lots of freshmen do not have the American Pie/Racer1 Chapman experience (btw can we ban that guy already?).
I heartily support the motion to ban Racer1While this could be true, I didn’t interpret it that way. Going to a giant school where you have minimal social ties (assumption) can be intimating at that age. It happens. Lots of freshmen do not have the American Pie/Racer1 Chapman experience (btw can we ban that guy already?).
Damn I had no idea you were such a fookup
This so much!!sub, as I'm sure you're aware, your nephew's at the age where many mental illnesses make a showing. It's f'n scary. I feel for him, and the family. Smart move for him to head home and take a beat, regroup.
One guy in my circle of OSU friends was removed from the dorm by the men in white coats (literally).sub, as I'm sure you're aware, your nephew's at the age where many mental illnesses make a showing. It's f'n scary. I feel for him, and the family. Smart move for him to head home and take a beat, regroup.
My priority for college was to study, but then coed dorms put 100+ girls within a half mile radius. Nature finds a way.While this could be true, I didn’t interpret it that way. Going to a giant school where you have minimal social ties (assumption) can be intimating at that age. It happens. Lots of freshmen do not have the American Pie/Racer1 Chapman experience (btw can we ban that guy already?).
Huge if true:
Why High School ‘Rigor’ Is Often Just A Facade
High school transcripts look more impressive than ever, but they often don’t reflect actual learning. One big reason that is generally overlooked: the elementary and middle school curriculum fails to equip kids with the knowledge they need to do high school level work.www.forbes.com
@Bob Dobbalina
I knew multiple people that managed 4.0s in high school who then bombed out of college. Knew a few mediocre students who excelled. Imo, college is A LOT different than high school and sometimes the work to get a 4.0 doesn't immediately transfer over to college courses.My daughter graduated from Poway High School (Poway Unified School District, Poway, California) in the late 1980s. She had a 4.0 GPA. Took her two quarters to pass remedial English at UC Riverside. She was a bright student and seemingly excelled throughout high school. I was pretty upset with PUD for the failure to recognize her weakness in writing and would have gotten her a tutor had we known. During her high school years, PUSD was top rated in San Diego County. At the time little did we know that grade inflation was a real ‘thing.’
Auto--A lot matters if your parents went to college.
IF they didn't, they just don't know what is going on.
Here is an email from a former student today:
Dear Auto,
I hope you are doing well!
I want to thank you for writing my recommendation letter for graduate school last year. I am thrilled to share that I have been accepted to the Entry-Level Doctorate of Occupational Therapy (OTD) program at my dream school - the University of Southern California! I will be starting the program in September and could not be more excited!
I truly appreciate your time, support, and endorsement! I believe your reference was a significant part of why the admission committee voted to accept me as a student.
Again, I am deeply grateful.
She is a great kid. She exemplifies my point that if you kick ass at the state schools for the undergraduate work (and she kicked ass) you can get into a good grad school.Auto--
It must be gratifying to get a message like that from a former student. The Doctorate of Occupational Therapy is a relatively new degree and those who get it from good schools (such as USC) get paid.