I have a 13 year old nephew. He and I go surfing about 4 or 5 times a month. He has gotten so good in the last few months. He makes me proud. My parents and my sister tell me how great it is that I spend time with him. I've been told by them, he really looks up to me. I have a lot of respect for him. He is a great skateboarder. He is a good kid all around. Hangin' with him makes me feel young and stoked. <BR>We went out yesterday and that little such and such got the best wave of the session. OTIS was STOKED! <BR>Before I picked him up, I had a chat with my sister. She told me that he had tried pot and alcohol recently. I asked her how she knew. She told me that he told her. I was proud once again, stand up kid I thought. As it turns out, it was either he tell or the vice principal tells. My sister said he is running with a fast crowd according to the school. My concern is that I set a good example. He has been camping with me in Mexico and surf spots up and down the coast. He has seen his uncle put away a few beers. Never has he busted me smoking pot (I gave that up quite a while ago). Setting a good example is where I get nervous. I get stoked and caught up in the moment when we hang out. He is treated like an adult by me and my friends. I sometimes feel like a kid. I don't have kids. Maybe some of you in the bb nation do have kids and can advise me. My own big mouth has not blown it yet. My family is important. I want to be a good role model and I wanna be me.