Agreed to an extent, at least about their parents telling them what they’ll miss. My prom and HS graduation were sh!t, although it was fun getting baked at all day and fooking off the last semester. A lot of fun social times outside of the big events that you never got back during those times.
This. I didn't go to prom, they had a field trip to Orlando for seniors for a night and I thought that sounded like 2 hours in a school bus with Orlando at the end of it; no thanks I'll swan dive into some lava instead.
Parents said I had to attend high school or college graduation; luckily I heard horror stories about 5 hours in the Gainesville sun for College of Engineering so high school it was. Sucked, but only like 3 hours and only sweltering in the sun for the first hour or so, plus saved my folks 6 hours in a car and probably hotel.
A couple buddies always had parties or hung out at their houses, basically every night including Christmas and Thanksgiving. Night of graduation, the said we were supposed to go to graduation parties. Everyone we knew hung out at their houses so we just shrugged. Parents made a cake, neighbors came over, they tried to send me out for the night, and I was like, lol, nobody I know is doing anything; gonna play some video games. They were absolutely stunned.
It was the carefree vibe, the days getting longer in March, April, and May, and the complete lack of fcks given. The last hurrah before five years of living almost 2 hours inland with no car.
Also the college grads who need jobs. OUCH.