My sister's pediatrician would tell her this.there’s a good point here. I know plenty of great parents whose kids turned out to be assholes
He had 3 high achievers.
And one kid was a total fuck up.
Also, a shitty parent can bias a kid to having their sh!t together.
Maybe a less triggering way to say it would be you can only assert so much control over a kid with parenting.
Nature is stronger than nurture.