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Speaking of surf schools and mental health….
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Everything else makes perfect sense.
Go to Mexico; kill your kids with a spear gun, hide them in the bushes.
What's not to get?
Go to Mexico; kill your kids with a spear gun, hide them in the bushes.
What's not to get?
Hey, I know someone who does séances and the like for fun and profit.
Want me to see if I can find out if he still wants you tué.
And if he does, well, I do know a different friend who knows someone that does "clearings" for profit.
My fee will with 10% of total charges.
Have your people contact my people and we'll get going. The life you save could be mine because I really want to retire early.
PS
I got $10 that says he won't be extradited back to Mexico.
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That doesn’t cover spearguns, knives, or sharpened sticks.
Red flag law - Wikipedia
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So does not apply here.
If I just read about this today and had no knowledge of the players, I too would hope this person would rot in hell. Fate worse than death kind of stuff.
But I know Matt, or at least felt I did. Surfed with him any number of times. Pushed kids from his surf school into waves. Smiled and shared family stories. We weren't close friends, but we were certainly on a first name basis. This whole thing is so utterly senseless and awful. There's no words to describe the feeling. It's horrific. I'm so confused and at a loss. Never in a million plus years would I ever have predicted such a thing.
The best thing that was said in this thread, and which applies to ALL situations and ALL communities, was by @Bayview : "Check in on your buds And trust your gut. ill bet someone close to him thought something was off and hindsight 20:20 shoulda said or done something"
Sadly, I don't know that many in our community will have that 20/20 hindsight, but if there was someone... I hope this is a lesson learned. Did Matt have a bipolar issue? I have no idea. Did Matt have drug problems? Not that I was aware of. Did Matt have psychosocial issues? Again, not that I was aware of.
Note: I've cut and deleted a few different responses I've had on this thread. I haven't wanted to check in, except to say I was confused and horrified when it first broke. At this point, I'm no further along in trying to process this. I feel awful for Abby.
But I know Matt, or at least felt I did. Surfed with him any number of times. Pushed kids from his surf school into waves. Smiled and shared family stories. We weren't close friends, but we were certainly on a first name basis. This whole thing is so utterly senseless and awful. There's no words to describe the feeling. It's horrific. I'm so confused and at a loss. Never in a million plus years would I ever have predicted such a thing.
The best thing that was said in this thread, and which applies to ALL situations and ALL communities, was by @Bayview : "Check in on your buds And trust your gut. ill bet someone close to him thought something was off and hindsight 20:20 shoulda said or done something"
Sadly, I don't know that many in our community will have that 20/20 hindsight, but if there was someone... I hope this is a lesson learned. Did Matt have a bipolar issue? I have no idea. Did Matt have drug problems? Not that I was aware of. Did Matt have psychosocial issues? Again, not that I was aware of.
Note: I've cut and deleted a few different responses I've had on this thread. I haven't wanted to check in, except to say I was confused and horrified when it first broke. At this point, I'm no further along in trying to process this. I feel awful for Abby.
yeah this is brutal. I feel for you man. I’ve been close to victims of mind-meltingly senseless violence and it’s horrific, no matter how sane the person was up until their psychotic break. it will never make sense
the Mother of the children, I am thinking of you, the tears flow my love is put forth.
Make it a Cnote and you’re on. Or as much as you want. Mexico has been compliant with USA extradition orders under both the past and present administrations, why wouldn’t the USA be compliant in kind?
Here is the weird thing. I never felt unloved by my dad.
He just had trouble self regulating.
You don't know how many of my friends said they didn't feel loved by their fathers when they were kids.
Love me, DADDY!
If you listen to Christain pop songs it's all about a trustworthy alpha male father figure who loves them unconditionally.
Weird sh!t.
Theme is always the same: transcendence through the unconditional love of a trustworthy alpha male.
Maybe mix it up.
Let the devil win sometimes.
Christian pop uses deceptive pattern mimicry.
About all I can do is recommend old Christian pop: Bach, Handel, Billings and - of course - the Psalter. The Psalter has numerous motifs you would find appalling but at least interesting.
Now do Psalm 109
hymnary.org
Hymns for Psalm 109 | Hymnary.org
Hymns for Psalm 109 from Hymnary.org, an authoritative index of hymns and hymnals.