unfortunately, too much instruction was given on academics at the expense of nurturing. There is only so much time in the day and energy to give and many parents/teachers think they are different activities and can not coexist. Sad and so we have war.What can I say? I had a mommy AND a daddy, which means I know how to use a calculator. It also means my primary responsibilty is to my family, not to someone else's family. And vice versa.
As far as i'm concerned the superusers are a special interest group. If the State wants to provide for them then let the State run an assigned risk pool.