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casa_mugrienta

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It just makes them women.

They think different than men and have different insecurities.

People always say the sex with crazy chicks is amazing.

What about it is?

Personally I've found sex is best with sane women who have a good understanding of men while at the same time are pretty comfortable in their own skin. When she's into you it's on, they will be crazy in bed but sane otherwise.
 
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moby

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A long time ago I had one of my friends mom tell me something like, "It's hard enough carrying yourself through this life, much less making yourself responsible for someone that is threatening to kill themselves. Dump her." It took me months to follow that advice. She lived. And I should have done it much, much sooner. Backsliding is easy with the crazy ones. The sex is usually off the hook and it's sooooo easy. Don't do it. It will just be worse further down the line.
 

Woke AF

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It just makes them women.

They think different than men and have different insecurities.

People always say the sex with crazy chicks is amazing.

What about it is?

Personally I've found sex is best with sane women who have a good understanding of men while at the same time are pretty comfortable in their own skin. When she's into you it's on, they will be crazy in bed but sane otherwise.
Crazy is pushing the boundaries of what is typical behavior. This could manifest as destructive to her or those around her.
Men can be just as crazy but it looks different just like their insecurities are different than that of females.

Sane women can be fun; riding a 3-fin thruster looks appealing but lacks that certain something, sometimes known as a 2hr session with the occasional screaming squirting tube.
 

casa_mugrienta

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Crazy is pushing the boundaries of what is typical behavior. This could manifest as destructive to her or those around her.
Interesting.

Watching people close to me self destruct or destroy others just isn't my thing.

I'm the polar opposite.

I'm like, "I've got a life to live, I don't want to be tangled up in your sh!t."
 

santacruzin

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A long time ago I had one of my friends mom tell me something like, "It's hard enough carrying yourself through this life, much less making yourself responsible for someone that is threatening to kill themselves. Dump her." It took me months to follow that advice. She lived. And I should have done it much, much sooner. Backsliding is easy with the crazy ones. The sex is usually off the hook and it's sooooo easy. Don't do it. It will just be worse further down the line.
This is what I had been trying to do. She wouldn’t allow it.
called the hospital an hour ago and they were giving me updates.

called them know and they said she is in a room. Then the nurse read the name from caller I’d to someone and they to,d me they have no information for me ?

what does that mean? What a mindfuck
 

casa_mugrienta

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This is what I had been trying to do. She wouldn’t allow it.
called the hospital an hour ago and they were giving me updates.

called them know and they said she is in a room. Then the nurse read the name from caller I’d to someone and they to,d me they have no information for me ?

what does that mean? What a mindfuck
You're probably not on her list of emergency contacts. They can't give you any information due to HIPAA.

It's a violation of federal law if they do.

If you were planning to cut it off anyway might be best to step away at this point.
 
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moby

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This is what I had been trying to do. She wouldn’t allow it.
called the hospital an hour ago and they were giving me updates.

called them know and they said she is in a room. Then the nurse read the name from caller I’d to someone and they to,d me they have no information for me ?

what does that mean? What a mindfuck
Does she have family there? They may be blaming you or at least thinking this is an unhealthy relationship that needs to end. It also doesn’t matter what she will “allow.” Take control back in your life. Be done.
 

VonMeister

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Funny thing is crazy seemed to be a white girl thing. I've always been attracted to hispanic girls even married one. I dated a few white girls in high school and through the years and there always seemed to be this emotional component to them and break ups were always full of drama. A hispanic girl would cut you before going down that road. Also to get a white girl with the same passion means you're going to be dealing with a lot of other sh!t as well.
 
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SlicedFeet

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recently learned all about this as my now ex GF is BPD/narcissist.
‘last night we broke up but I let her stay at my place.

‘’came out at 5 am to get water and she was on couch unresponsive. She took all her pills and ODed.
paramedics just left.
no idea why I am sharing this here and probably will delete it in minute

I’m a fucking mess right now . Mix of sadness anger and what could I have done different.
There’s nothing you could have done different, you couldn’t foresee this. Breaking up is the hardest thing to do.

The drugs were prescribed and she knew the risks of mixing.

The amount of O2 reaching her brain while she was unresponsive is going to be the big factor for the remainder of her life.

I’d say just be honest and open with her family.

Can’t imagine going through this, don’t let it chew you to bits.
 
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enframed

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recently learned all about this as my now ex GF is BPD/narcissist.
‘last night we broke up but I let her stay at my place.

‘’came out at 5 am to get water and she was on couch unresponsive. She took all her pills and ODed.
paramedics just left.
no idea why I am sharing this here and probably will delete it in minute

I’m a fucking mess right now . Mix of sadness anger and what could I have done different.
Sorry to hear this. Best wishes.
 

youcantbeserious

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recently learned all about this as my now ex GF is BPD/narcissist.
‘last night we broke up but I let her stay at my place.

‘’came out at 5 am to get water and she was on couch unresponsive. She took all her pills and ODed.
paramedics just left.
no idea why I am sharing this here and probably will delete it in minute

I’m a fucking mess right now . Mix of sadness anger and what could I have done different.
Sorry man

Gut punch

at least she made it, thank goodness

Now run away
 
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Muscles

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Backsliding is easy with the crazy ones. The sex is usually off the hook and it's sooooo easy. Don't do it. It will just be worse further down the line.
Been there. 5 years of my life that I will never get back. Eventually I came to my senses and went no contact.
 
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Your Moms Dildo

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recently learned all about this as my now ex GF is BPD/narcissist.
‘last night we broke up but I let her stay at my place.

‘’came out at 5 am to get water and she was on couch unresponsive. She took all her pills and ODed.
paramedics just left.
no idea why I am sharing this here and probably will delete it in minute

I’m a fucking mess right now . Mix of sadness anger and what could I have done different.
Sounds like marriage material.
 

Maz

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All the best, mate. Hope you have some good friends or family close by to be with you.
 

Random Guy

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The one time a girl threatened to slash her wrists because I was breaking up with her, I told her I didn’t care if she did and I didn’t care if she didn’t
And that maybe one of the 16 guys whose dicks she sucked the night before might care
When I replay in my head, I always wish I’d simple added, Nah, they probably don’t care either way

I don’t think she harmed herself that day
 
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