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What seems to surprise them is how often those sorts of photos are shared around the water cooler.hooked up with a chick for a bit that would surprise me with office bathroom nudes during the work day.
Prob not.I guess for now - im wondering if talking to her everyday is healthy? maybe not talking to her everyday will make the times we do connect more special?
lolzother things we can do online together other than fap. ways we can surprise each other and be as spontaneous as two people can be online.
In that case might be worth it after all.There is also a decent gap in age, me being the geezer in the scenario.
heh, about 20 years ago, met a girl online playing backgammon...it started out light enough - daily chats, emails, phone etc - within a few weeks, i couldn't stop thinking about her. she was in Rio de Janiero, i was in Washington (state). somehow, we kept it going for a couple months until she came to visit over Thanksgiving. in person, everything clicked... I visited her in Brazil a few months later, shortly thereafter she transferred to her company's Miami office and I transferred to my company's SE NC office, so we kept it rolling, getting closer and closer. long story short, we worked our way into the same zip code gradually, within a year or two...bought a house, had a kid, made a life etc.Might've gotten myself into a little bit of trouble. Head over heels - 3,000 miles apart.
We just met a week ago - instant attraction on both parts. Have been texting/facetiming/zooming 24/7 since and Im not the type of guy that usually texting/glued to my phone all day type at all but I cant get enough.
Anyone have experience with this sort of thing? Did it work out, can it work out? Luckily communication technology has made this a bit easier these days but tips/ tricks to keep things interesting?
I know intimacy is the key to a long lasting relationship at least for me, but save the perv-y sh!t for another thread. Looking for advice on how to actually make this work sans both of us having to fly to one another every other weekend.
You paid for her flight ? she is younger? 10 years younger?more ? I predict you are going to have a great time and then get your heart broke. Enjoy the rideThere is also a decent gap in age, me being the geezer in the scenario. I just booked her a flight out in here in a couple weeks which will be our first time hanging out in person with complete privacy and soberness.
stocked to hear a success story!i think the key is that i was exactly the person i represented myself to be and so was she. so it can work, but it really requires two honest people to make it happen right. ymmv.
yes, yes, and yes.You paid for her flight ? she is younger? 10 years younger?more ? I predict you are going to have a great time and then get your heart broke. Enjoy the ride
in all seriousness good luck! keep us posted
man, thats some real sh!t right there and i didnt think about that. ive been trying to plan out some special stuff but if a person isnt into the your day to day then whats the point right.can;t help you with handling long distance but something to consider:
When she comes out here do what you normally do. hang out with friends, go where you normally go (aside from dinner dates maybe) and when you go to her place try to get engrained in her normal lifestyle and see what that's all about.
everything is peachy when you fall in love but once the everyday life kicks in that's when it gets real.
If this random piece of advice somewhat helps in the future I'd like for you to tell her that some of your decision to marry her came from a completely random dude named Silentbutdeadly on the internet
to be fair she could be getting banged by a guy like me?She’s getting gorilla fuckked by her boyfriend(s) 3,000 miles away.
Nothing wrong with being a pen pal but don’t kid yourself.
having an end date to long distance from early on is most key, in my experience. The sooner, the better.The thrill of traveling NY-Calif for a relationship is fun for awhile. Less so with the hassles of covid. So you can probably give it a go for awhile, but I'd give yourself a set amount of time you're gonna do long distance. Say, 6 months top. Have a plan for ending up in the same location after that point. Otherwise, she's gonna meet someone, or you will, or some other job will come up for one of you and it'll take you and/or your heart somewhere else. And then it'll suck.
Oh it’s a gonna be a disaster and when it happens it will be on her terms.yes, yes, and yes.
we've both acknowledged its going to either be a complete disaster or a miracle and nothing in between.
knew i could count on you buddyShe’s getting gorilla fuckked by her boyfriend(s) 3,000 miles away.
Nothing wrong with being a pen pal but don’t kid yourself.