March 17, 2022by JAMES BROPHY, Organizer
Update by Maria Brophy:
After 112 days in a hospital, Drew was released to finally go home on March 8th, on his 51st birthday!
We did it! He beat the odds. He made it through the worst of it.
As we left the hospital, Drew joked, “I’m out on parole!”
Before discharge, Dylan and I got training on how to help Drew ambulate. He is frail and needs someone to spot him when he moves. We tie a belt around his waist and slip one hand in to catch him if he slips.
Driving home on the freeway, Drew loved the mountain view and kept saying “this is amazing.”
We got home and Drew’s mom and sister were waiting with “Happy Birthday” balloons. A big banner signed by friends was hung in the front yard by our friend Gary Headrick . Drew got tears in his eyes. He was so happy to be home after 4 months away.
We have arranged for physical therapy, occupational therapy, a nurse and body healers to come to the house to work with him 6 days a week. This is what it will take to have Drew walking on his own.
Our lives have changed greatly; freedoms temporarily suspended. We thought I’d be able to go back to work when he got home, no longer needing to drive to a hospital every day. But we can’t leave him alone just yet.
We depend on things we never needed before; constant flow of oxygen, wheelchair, a walker and medicines. These foreign things replaced paddleboards and his electric bike.
Drew’s new goal is to navigate around the house by himself without needing someone to follow.
We try to feel like nothing’s changed, getting back to the things we used to do, that we can still do now. I make a good meal that we enjoy at the table. We watch our favorite series at night; Yellowstone and 1883. And sometimes the Beverly Hillbillies reruns if we need a laugh!
This road is a lot longer and harder than we thought.
But we are so grateful to have him home, miraculously alive and recovering!
It is a gift that we will never take for granted.
Thanks for caring, everyone. Your donations are covering all these extra costs of medical care, physical therapy and Drew and I being out of work for over 4 months, Drew probably for 6 more.
We appreciate all the help you've given. It is making Drew's recovery smoother.
Thank you and know that we love you all!
Xoxo