You are a ray of hope for us 40yr olds
you have to have the right mindset
maybe people get too wound up because they're expecting it to play out like a rom-com
lower expectations, keep it light and breezy...the keepers are easy to spot and you don't
blow all your emotional and financial capital getting to them
surfers have innate advantages over most other males at this age
if you don't have a vasectomy, get one...if you want kids, there are buckets of girls in the
mid to late 30's who are straight up looking to mate....(get a vasectomy)