Anyone Need a Life Coach?

r32

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I like dating...it's fun and exciting and stressful and nerve wracking

one girl I dated had a whole system for Bumble to weed out the whackos...she had good stories

the 40's is a glorious age bracket...some of these moms are ON FIRE!
You are a ray of hope for us 40yr olds
 

afoaf

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You are a ray of hope for us 40yr olds
you have to have the right mindset

maybe people get too wound up because they're expecting it to play out like a rom-com

lower expectations, keep it light and breezy...the keepers are easy to spot and you don't
blow all your emotional and financial capital getting to them

surfers have innate advantages over most other males at this age

if you don't have a vasectomy, get one...if you want kids, there are buckets of girls in the
mid to late 30's who are straight up looking to mate....(get a vasectomy)
 

Boneroni

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move to oc i have to literally fight the milfs off me down here when i dont wear my wedding ring. its ridiculous
It kinda feels like that in SB as well. If I wasn't married, and a little more charming, I think I could pull a ton of really hot mom tail.
Meh. Honestly, seems like a huge hassle with moderate success and fulfillment, but I'm a cynical as sh!t 40yo right now.
 
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Chocki

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may work for some - but that is 100% against how i am raising my kid
I would love nothing more for her to just enjoy surfing for what if is - a healthy hobby
Completely valid and very respectable answer.

I’m still trying to figure out what life coaches do. So far all I can come up with is tell people what they need/want to hear and repackage “The Secret”.

Love hearing about you alls adventures during Covid. It’s nice to know that other than being ridden by a select few determined by providence, foresight, luck, etc. there are marquee waves breaking and going unridden, unmolested.
 
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keenfish

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I like dating...it's fun and exciting and stressful and nerve wracking

one girl I dated had a whole system for Bumble to weed out the whackos...she had good stories

the 40's is a glorious age bracket...some of these moms are ON FIRE!
The true tell is how many notches you have on your belt. Post it up for bragging rights. ;)

I've been a career bachelor for most my life. I have a lot of notches but probably pale in comparison to most of you dating app guys.
 

everysurfer

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I like dating...it's fun and exciting and stressful and nerve wracking

one girl I dated had a whole system for Bumble to weed out the whackos...she had good stories

the 40's is a glorious age bracket...some of these moms are ON FIRE!
No matter how hot, there is some other guy out there who is sick of her shít
 

manbearpig

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word. im in the middle of negotiating a deal on a wildly underpriced beachfront in an epic community in Florida right now but next year I want to rally the CR partners and see if they would be into it. I would likely foot the bill in exchange for some dramatic shift in share ownership. One of the parters and bff since we were 5 is a gifted architect so his valuable talents and efforts will earn him more equity too. But yeah we would need a full time overseer and ass whipper who ain’t afraid to get sh!t done in ass backwards foreign countries, and maybe stick around to at least launch and manage for a bit to see if we can make it profitable. It has its warts but it’s still a long term boom town I think. Long game. Architect bro has built several sustainable works of functional art across Africa. We kind of have a dream team. I even have a long time Italian friend there to be your local consigliere
Need an arborist down there?:poke::dancing:
 

Subway

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I mean, we are sitting on nearly an acre of mango orchard across the street from the beach in the heart of Santa Teresa, I don’t really want to do anything with it except sell it for 3 million bucks in 10 years
 

manbearpig

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You doing anything with the hardwood trees you take down?
I do have an Alaskan mill that I use from time to time. It’s been awhile, most slabs I’ve given away. But I need a butchers block in my kitchen.

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everysurfer

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