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Divorce Thread better than book thread
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My inlaws did similar - no divorce but split up as soon as the kids left - it was mostly my MIL that wanted him out for no good reason.
Then my FIL was living like a 20 year old with his own apartment. Big screen TV, mattress on the floor, etc. It was pathetic.
Very WTF.
My MIL bought a condo in a retirement community. She had no car (always relied on my FIL to drive her everywhere). So she was riding the shuttle and taking public transport. Plenty of friends and family but would not stop bitching she was lonely.
So she took him back in. He sleeps on the futon in the living room and she in the bedroom.
Still bitches about him and in total denial that for better or worse they are joined at the hip.
13th year of marriage coming up in 10 days (24 years together). Was never easy. A child makes it harder. Always working through out sh!t though. I don't believe there are easy marriages, what you see in IG is a lie, people are so fucking fake.
i set up a Hinge profile last week, just to pass the time while the movers were doing their thing. Holy smokes, there are a lot of attractive successful women in New York happy to meet a man with a job and a full head of hair
I think they will be marrying in the future.
But polygamous marriages.
It will be highly appealing to women who desire safety, stability, and children but cannot find a decent man.
Hey, that was uncalled for! (mad baldie out)
So basically marriage as usual but no need to hide all the cheating?
Yeah you're going to be swimming in it. Praying for you RN, @Subway!
No man with that kind of means is going to subject himself to that much alimony exposure in our society. Look at Elon Musk - he procreates with a lot of women - a lot - but doesn't marry them. The only conceivable alternative is to re-structure society like the Kingdom of Saud where sheikhs have upwards of 5 wives and more concubines like their prophet Mohammed. Sheikh Bin Laden had 50-70 sons, including Osama.
The disgusting thing about finding a mate these days is people have "lists" and a new partner must meet that criteria.
First it was women, now a lot of men too it seems.
Dating apps make it worse. "No tattoos" "No xyz politics" etc.
That's not the way relationships work.
It seems people under 35 just can understand that...and then they wonder why they can't find a mate.
This is what happens when a society's social and community frameworks begin to crumble.
First it was women, now a lot of men too it seems.
Dating apps make it worse. "No tattoos" "No xyz politics" etc.
That's not the way relationships work.
It seems people under 35 just can understand that...and then they wonder why they can't find a mate.
This is what happens when a society's social and community frameworks begin to crumble.
yes. it's crazy. I've barely done a thing, and my inbox runneth over. I don't WANT to date, i was just curious. And i like the idea of gradually expanding my social world, and meeting lots of good looking successful women
you’re fishing in a barrel with tnt.
my buddy talks about how much he misses the easy NYC talent all the time.
There are tons of videos on this on the internet. Basically, women are left in a sea of options through social media and Top 10% Chad isn't too picky about who he'll lay with. Women interpret this fling with Chad to mean, "I'm in the top 10% too" so they stop looking at other men in their range until desperation kicks in. This is sad.
We're in Calhoun's rat experiment. I resisted this explanation for a long time since we're not rats and have a spiritual side, but this is as good of a materialistic explanation as any.
Sounds to me like there’s no good way out for themMy inlaws did similar - no divorce but split up as soon as the kids left - it was mostly my MIL that wanted him out for no good reason.
Then my FIL was living like a 20 year old with his own apartment. Big screen TV, mattress on the floor, etc. It was pathetic.
Very WTF.
My MIL bought a condo in a retirement community. She had no car (always relied on my FIL to drive her everywhere). So she was riding the shuttle and taking public transport. Plenty of friends and family but would not stop bitching she was lonely.
So she took him back in. He sleeps on the futon in the living room and she in the bedroom.
Still bitches about him and in total denial that for better or worse they are joined at the hip.
They entered an agreement years ago and now their stuck with each other
Until death do they part
Sounds like a pretty fucking miserable way to live
Of course Maybe I’m misinterpreting based on your short description
I don’t get itI've heard that before.
I hope it works out for you.
What’s so funny?
