Let me see...when not working or surfing, living in San Francisco provides me:
1 A single family home with a yard and a garage that lets me garden, tinker on the workbench, store stuff, and maybe one day, a retirement package (selling the place). Did I mention the garage or as a nephew called it, "Your unfinished bachelor den that smells like surf wax, boiled linseed oil, sawdust, and machine oil."
2 Ability to walk or ride bicycles, from my home to for food, drinks, entertainment, health care, visit friends transit and into SFO (airport) for travels.
3 Close to Hwy 1/101, I-80, for car trips when I get fed up with my fellow humans.
4 "Cultural" events...I know it sounds dorky, but a symphony, or gasp, a play/theatre production can be pretty fun. Maybe not as much fun as rock n roll clubs or other weirdo things in warehouses, or maybe it is just a different sort of fun that rich people have to gussie up so they can cut loose. No matter, fun can be fun even if it can be pretentious highbrow claptrap.
5 Neighborhood festivities! One of my favorites is the Columbus Day street fair in North Beach with the utterly goofy small town parade they have.
6 SF is a small town physically speaking, and I enjoy being able to get around it on foot/bike...like an giant urban playground...admittedly this is much more fun when there isn't a pandemic, and yeah, there are plenty of places I don't bother to go for a variety of reasons, and yeah, the urban-ness gets to me at times.
7 Shopping/"being seen"/'things involving the monetization of personal hygiene'/sporting events isn't something I do for pleasure, nor something I seek out, so those amenities are meh to me, but they do provide a background, and other people seem to like these things and makes them happy, so, humans being social beasts means you got to be comfy around your fellow human, and happy humans are good to be around.
8 After all these years here (longest I've ever living in a single town), a sense of belonging. This exists only my head and a stronger person could probably have this feeling after 6 months anywhere in the world.....maybe, I don't know.
9 All those property taxes I pay and I still have to pay to fix the sidewalk and deal with stupid kids who don't learn at the school I am paying for....you just can't find that angst everywhere for less money.
10 It is the middle of November and I have not turned on the AC since, well, since forever, and the heat? We did just put on the thicker bedding, so maybe no heat gets turned on till January....Think I turned that off 10 months back.
Our course was designed by Severiano Ballesteros.
Maybe you've heard of him?
No, I haven't.