Parliament just rejected the deal the EU would agree to. Twice. A lot of people are primarily attributing that outcome to May's performance, not to what they consider to be a weak position.
As for the irony of the Poles in the UK, the Polish gov't has a much more robust attitude toward immigration issues than even the UK. That's what's ironic about calling the Poles victims of xenophobia. Obvious to most people, but not to you.
Your boy Soros seems to be sweating the current trajectory a lot more than you are. Have you considered reading any of his comments to understand why?